It’s great to have expectations of how our life will turn out but it isn’t good to form an attachment to a specific outcome because life has a funny way of changing it.

How many times do we look in the mirror and always seem to find something wrong with ourselves? We never seem to be happy with ourselves as we see it. We always want to be just those few kilos lighter or heavier, our hair curlier, thicker or straighter, those few less wrinkles or that little bit younger or older.

A short story to share with you!

Numerous times we don’t think that just one person doing something no matter how small it is can make a difference. Well I believe that we can and although we may not see the difference right away that small act can help causes a ripple effect.

Courage and fear go hand in hand. We all face fear, but finding the courage to reach for our goals come from within. Fulfillment and success doesn’t come from staying within your comfort zone. You have to use that fear to make an impact.

Most of us have dreams about what we want to do in life, or we had dreams of who and what we wanted to become and a small minority of us have fulfilled those dreams. But what if we could all reach for the stars and find the life that we all thought we were meant to have? Most people just think that those dreams we had in our younger years were just pipe dreams. Dreams of a whimsical nature with the question of ‘how could I possibly reach it?’

No matter what our plans or goals in life are, we will always face challenges. We need to identify what those challenges will be if we hope to overcome them. Will they be environmental, personal or social obstacles? Are they controllable or out of your control?

I do believe that when bad stuff happens to us if you let it go then things do come back to us. 7 steps for you to find your own ‘Inner Gold’;

How many of us wish for things to be different? I know that I can fall into this almost every day. If it is raining we want it to be sunny, if it is too hot we wish for a cool breeze. We can look in the mirror and wish for a different body, or we can wish for a different job. Or in today’s world we can wish for what used to be.

We all go through adversity in life but as we all know it’s not what happens in life but how we deal with it.

I believe that success and happiness go hand in hand.

I remember watching my first Olympic games in 1968, the Mexico games, on our black and white television. Lying on the floor in front of it as a 7 year old and being absolutely mesmerised by the gymnasts. I loved gymnastics and right then and there I decided that I was going to be an Olympic gymnast for Canada.